Choosing to end one’s marriage is never an easy decision, as virtually no one goes into marriage planning for it to fail. Marriage takes work, and before divorce is considered, most couples will try all other available options to help resolve their differences and stay together. However, when all is said and done, for some couples in New York and elsewhere, divorce sometimes is the best option.
In a recently published article, various individuals shared their feelings on trying to make their marriages work and explained why they ultimately got divorced. For most, divorce was not an option at first. This is something that many struggling couples will say, but when things fail to improve the divorce option simply does not seem so bad.
Some of the things mentioned in this article include trying everything to make the marriage work — such as date nights, counseling and taking a break — and finally recognizing that the marriage was done. Every situation written about was unique; some individuals dealt with physical abuse, some simply felt they grew apart from their spouses. No matter what one’s marital background story is, only he or she can know when it is time to call it quits and move forward.
Couples in New York who feel that they have exhausted all of their other options, and simply feel that divorce is the next logical step, can seek assistance in beginning and finalizing the process. It is not necessarily an easy path to take. However, in the end it may just be what is best for one’s personal and familial circumstances.
Source: The Huffington Post, “Whatever You Do, Don’t Say ‘Divorce Is Not An Option'”, Brittany Wong, Feb. 9, 2016